A Story

A man just got married and was returning home with his wife. They were crossing a lake in a boat, when suddenly a great storm arose.

The man was a warrior, but the woman became very much afraid because it seemed almost hopeless:

The boat was small and the storm was really huge, and any moment they were going to be drowned. But the man sat silently, calm and quiet, as if nothing was happening.

The woman was trembling and she said : “Are you not afraid ? This may be our last moment of life! It doesn’t seem that we will be able to reach the other shore. Only some miracle can save us; otherwise death is certain. Are you not afraid? Are you mad or something? Are you a stone or something?"

The man laughed and took the sword out of its sheath.

The woman was even more puzzled: What he was doing?

Then he brought the naked sword close to the woman’s neck, so close that just a small gap was there, it was almost touching her neck.

He said :” Are you afraid ?”

She started to laugh and said :” Why should I be afraid ?,If the sword is in your hands, why I should be afraid? I know you love me."


He put the sword back and said, : "This is my answer. I know God Loves me, and the storm is in His hands SO WHATSOEVER IS GOING TO HAPPEN IS GOING TO BE GOOD.

If we survive, good; if we don’t survive, good ,because everything is in His hands and He cannot do anything wrong. "



Allah( Subhana wa taaala) say’s in the Quran :

“But it may happen that ye hate a thing which is good for you, and it may happen that ye love a thing which is bad for you. Allah knoweth, ye know not” (Quran, 2:216).

Make a habit of saying Alhamdulillah and acknowledge Allah in everything you do. It’s very easy to forget and to neglect this. Acknowledging Allah as often as possible will save you from becoming selfish, self-centered and proud.

Therefore, Brothers and Sisters, always be optimistic and respond with “Alhamdulillah” and Remember that Everything happens with you is for GOOD. —

Alhamdulilah [“Praise be to Allah.”] - الْحَمْدللّهِ 

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Suamiku, Aku Mencintaimu KeranaNYA.

Suamiku, Aku Mencintaimu

Suamiku...

Masih ingatkah kau, saat pertama kali kita terikat halal oleh kecintaan kerana Allah subhanahu wata'ala?.

Kita melihat antara satu sama lain dengan begitu sempurna, menyenangkan dan membahagiakan.

Rasanya begitu abadi kebahagiaan yang kita cita- citakan. Hari- hari selanjutnya adalah perjalanan pergantian suka dan duka, dan kebahagiaan atau konflik senantiasa melingkupi hubungan hati.

Suamiku...

Saat suatu hari kau menemukan sikapku menyentuh dan mengusik batinmu...

Mohon sedikit perhatian dari hatimu. Jangan kau sedih dengan tangisan manja dari wanitamu ini. Bukan bermaksud menyukarkan, namun sekadar mencari cara lain mendapatkan perhatian, kerana kosongnya satu sisi hati yang minta untuk lebih dimanjakan oleh seorang lelaki yang begitu dikaguminya.

Mengapa Allah menjadikan kau suami, dan bukan sebaliknya? Kau telah ditakdirkan Allah menjadi suamiku, yang bererti akan lebih berhak dalam membimbingku. Yakinlah itu suamiku, dan janganlah bersikap dengan keegoan seorang lelaki, namun fahamilah kelemahanku sebagai seorang wanita.

Hanya dengan kelembutan, kasih sayang, serta nasihat penuh kesabaran namun tegas, yang dapat dengan mudah meluruskan sikap isterimu .Cubalah untuk mamahami isi hati isterimu yang lemah ini.

Suamiku...

Saat suatu hari kau terdengar kata- kataku yg menyentuh hati ...
 Namun, hal itu juga membahagiakan para isteri kerana secara sedar dia bersyukur bahawa ada seorang manusia yang ternyata begitu sangat mencintai dan memahaminya...

Suamiku....

Ampuni isterimu atas kekurangan yang dikurniakan Allah kepadaku. Mohon jangan tutup pintu hatimu dengan ketidakredhaanmu mu atasku. Jangan buat para bidadari di syurga menggantikan tempatku dan memilikimu kelak. Sungguh hal itu akan menyedihkan bagiku.

Suamiku...

Kau gagah, ketika kau bijak meletakkan kelembutan dan senyum saat mendidik isterimu. Kau berwibawa, saat nada bicaramu menggambarkan ketulusan dan kemurniaan niatmu dalam menasihati dan mendidikku.  Kau kuat, saat menerima dengan ikhlas tentang kelemahan isterimu.

Suamiku, kaulah idolaku...

Suamiku, kaulah idolaku, yang halal bagiku. Dan aku ingin selalu mengagumimu. Hanya kau. Maka aku berharap, didiklah dirimu agar indah untukku dan dihadapanku, dan didiklah aku agar aku mengerti tentang keindahan itu. Supaya aku belajar tentangnya dan tentang kebaikan.Supaya aku dapat dengan tulus berterima kasih kepada Allah atas kurniaan insan sepertimu, supaya aku dapat meneduhkan diri dan mencukupkan jiwa denganmu, supaya aku dapat dengan batin yang tulus menyatakan "Suamiku, Aku mencintaimu.."

Wanita Idaman Lelaki Soleh

Wanita idaman lelaki ialah,
yang hatinya disalut taqwa kepada ALLAH,
yang jiwanya penuh penghayatan trhadap Islam,
yang sentiasa dahaga dengan ilmu,
yang sentiasa haus dengan pahala,yang solatnya maruah dirinya,
yang tidak pernah takut untuk berkata benar,
yang tidak pernah gentar melawan nafsu,


Wanita idaman lelaki ialah,
yang menjaga tutur katanya,
yang tidak bermegah dengan ilmu yang dimilikinya,
yang sentiasa berbuat kebajikan kerana sifatnya yang dermawan ,
yang mempunyai ramai teman,
dan tidak mempunyai musuh bersifat syaitan,


Wanita idaman lelaki ialah,
wanita yang menghormati ibunya,
yang sentiasa berbakti kepada kedua orang tuanya dan keluarga,
yang bakal menjaga kerukunan rumahtangga,
yang sabar mendidik suami dan anak-anak mendalami agama,
yang mengamalkan hidup penuh sederhana,
kerana dunia baginya adalah rumah sementara menuju akhirat,


Wanita idaman lelaki ialah,
yang sentiasa bersedia untuk menjadi insan yang hakiki,
yang hidup di bawah naungan Al-Quran dan sunnah nabi,
yang boleh diajak berbicara dan berdiskusi,
yang menjaga matanya dari pandangan duniawi,
yang sujudnya penuh kesyukuran dengan rahmat Ya Rabbi,


Wanita idaman lelaki ialah,
yang tidak pernah membazirkan waktu,
matanya kepenatan kerana penat menimba ilmu,
suaranya lesu kerana lidahnya tak henti memuji dan mengingatiMU,
tidurnya lena dengan cahaya keimanan,
bangunnya Subuh penuh penghayatan,
kerana sehari lagi usianya bertambah penuh keinsafan,


Wanita idaman lelaki ialah,
yang sentiasa mengingati mati,
yang baginya hidup di dunia adalah ladang akhirat,
yang mana buah kehidupan itu perlu dibaja dan dijaga,
agar berputik tunas yang bakal menjadi baka yang sempurna,
meneruskan perjuangan Islam sebelum tibanya Kiamat,


Wanita idaman lelaki ialah,
yang tidak terpesona dengan buaian dunia,
kerana dia mengimpikan syurga,
di situlah mahligai impiannya,
dialah WANITA IDAMAN LELAKI seadanya.

THREE THINGS IN LIFE!!!

3 Things.....


3 things in life will never come back when gone:
-Time
-Words
-Opportunity


3 things in life that should never be lost:
-Peace
-Hopeful duaa
-sincerity


3 things in life that are most valuable:
-imaan
-salaat/Prayer
-Love


3 things that make a person:
-guidance
-Hardwork
-Commitment


3 things that can destroy a person:
-Lust
-Pride
-Anger


3 things in life that are constant:
-Allaah
-Change
-Death


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May Allaah forgive and guide til Jannah tul Firdous. Ameen!

LOVE HER

Love her …when she sips on your coffee or tea. She only wants to make sure it tastes just right for you.

Love her…when she "pushes" you to pray. She wants to be with you in Jannah (Paradise).

Love her…when she asks you to play with the kids. She did not "make" them on her own.

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Love her...when she is jealous. Out of all the men she can have, she chose you

Love her…when she has annoying little habits that drives you nuts. You have them too.

Love her…when her cooking is bad. She tries.

Love her…when she looks dishevelled in the morning. She always grooms herself up again.

Love her…when she asks to help with the kids homework. She only wants you to be part of the home.

Love her...when she asks if she looks fat. Your opinion counts, so tell her she's beautiful.

Love her…when she looks beautiful. She's yours so appreciate her.

Love her...when she spends hours to get ready. She only wants to look her best for you.

Love her…when she buys you gifts you don't like. Smile and tell her it's what you've always wanted.

Love her…when she has developed a bad habit. You have many more and with wisdom and politeness you have all the time to help her change.

Love her…when she cries for absolutely nothing. Don't ask, tell her its going to be okay

Love her…when she suffers from PMS. Buy chocolate, rub her feet and back and just chat to her (trust me this works!)

Love her…when whatever you do is not pleasing. It happens and will pass

Love her…when she stains your clothes. You needed a new thobe (kurta) anyway

Love her…when she tells you how to drive. She only wants you to be safe.

Love her…when she argues. She only wants to make things right for both

Love her…she is yours. You don't need any other special reason!!!!

All this forms part of a Woman's Character. Women are part of your life and should be treated as the Queen.

The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) advised concerning the woman:

· Treat the women well.

· The best of you are those who are the best in the treatment of their wives.

· No one honours the woman except an honorable man. And no one humiliates her or holds her in contempt except one who is evil, vile, wicked and depraved.

Signs of Weak Faith & How to Increase Our Faith.

SIGNS OF WEAK FAITH 

*Committing sins and not feeling any guilt *Having a hard heart and no desire to read the Qur’an. *Feeling too lazy to do good deeds, e.g. being late for prayer. *... Neglecting the Sunnah and following Bidath. *Having mood swings, for instance being upset about petty things and bothered and irritated most of the time. *Not feeling anything when hearing verses from the Qur’an, 

for example when Allah warns us of punishments and His promise of glad tidings. *Finding difficulty in remembering Allah. *Not feeling bad when unlawful things are done. *Desiring status and wealth regardless of the means. *Being mean and miserly, i.e. not wanting to part with wealth. *Ordering others to do good deeds when not practicing them ourselves. *Feeling pleased when things are not progressing for others. *Being concerned with worldly things forgetting about the hereafter. *Making fun of people who do simple good deeds,like cleaning the mosque. *Not feeling concerned the responsibility to do something to promote Islam. *Tendency to argue just for the sake of arguing without any proof. *Becoming engrossed and very involved with worldly things, i.e. feeling bad only when losing something in terms of material wealth. *Becoming engrossed and obsessive about ones own self.
 OKAY, HOW TO INCREASE OUR FAITH THEN? •Recite and ponder on the meanings of the Qur’an. •Realize the greatness of Allah. Everything is under His control. There are signs in everything we see that points us to His greatness. Everything happens with His permission. •Make an effort to gain deep knowledge of religion. •Attend gatherings where Allah is remembered. In such gatherings we are surrounded by Angels. •We have to increase our good deeds. One good deed leads to another. •We must fear the miserable end of our lives. •Remember when we are put in our graves, when we are judged, whether we will be in paradise or hell. •Realize that we need Allah. Be humble. Don’t covet material things in this life. •Our love for Allah must be shown in actions. •Realize the effects of sins and disobedience.